TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:0 N/ B1 G( q5 {4 J5 f
• attend a sleepover
$ [. O* K! ~9 {9 [4 f$ J( @% f6 ^$ V- H• have a playdate. M9 M& {8 s) g! @& M
• be in a school play! W, e% c7 O& w; [* y: @, S1 ^
• complain about not being in a school play* W9 a0 M. R$ o5 A
• watch TV or play computer games/ b0 v8 v+ v! a2 v: @
• choose their own extracurricular activities
1 x. P$ B$ p# g! [• get any grade less than an A
3 a8 v4 i; R& Z f" f• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
6 }9 E" s5 ~$ A" D• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
7 i: t G. \9 q8 T9 [ w• not play the piano or violin.
" [9 _4 h- B4 _& K' h8 Y& t- @$ l/ a看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
6 _5 b! I& _- p1 e8 B我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。( P W& A* P2 T% i1 u% I
到底何为成功?. D% I$ u8 J2 l- T' n9 | c# \- F
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?9 Q. t/ i4 n3 ^4 O: a& q9 w( v
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
- ^) m, k8 i& [, u' I做到这些又能怎样呢?# s7 L# {0 P8 S6 N
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
9 Q9 T8 q* J+ o4 M在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。3 W, b! t' {. N8 @8 Z6 e U
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? ' p% B3 X/ v( N+ ~
NO WAY!
0 M0 J0 w4 R) j# o, D我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?) i& D9 H7 l& M( X. ]6 ^
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