TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
; u& Q t, h! s/ ?• attend a sleepover
3 i- f3 R( }: {& G; D' [2 W• have a playdate
; t( E& T7 v0 b0 N• be in a school play( |0 ]8 O& q! v
• complain about not being in a school play6 o* N2 v" l$ z0 X1 [
• watch TV or play computer games
# M Y) t4 S: w" Z5 u0 L' g1 F• choose their own extracurricular activities
7 ]' N2 b4 s+ h• get any grade less than an A: a, s2 e: E$ L$ O% _, x; j
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama$ { Y/ p4 @$ ~; ~, Y8 ~" N- o. i/ P8 T
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin$ G# T+ J; X4 f
• not play the piano or violin.
- w3 V( n2 Y% T6 ?4 \看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。 @* n& s7 I4 A
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。$ B: h. S" I; N" T
到底何为成功? {1 {8 n v% C* h" D' V- C
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
. B/ o5 J @# S- E0 E/ M _3 S"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
* ~4 g \6 M4 o2 ?9 O做到这些又能怎样呢?3 H' M2 K7 b" R9 K3 X/ K4 \5 Z
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
% W- @ F* I) I0 s$ G& n; w+ k在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
5 a( r! e. V8 r! V$ h" a j; U# a/ pnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
3 h/ N1 D7 l$ p. V2 x3 r; GNO WAY!# E6 K. c- w, v- I
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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