TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
" x P0 I ~% N$ h% W• attend a sleepover8 `) V5 @# g* x
• have a playdate" r+ `) ?+ v% c0 b& ?
• be in a school play
& @5 S1 y! m2 i9 J• complain about not being in a school play
9 w. v0 K' t" B* g9 h; D• watch TV or play computer games1 D+ i; y6 w1 l
• choose their own extracurricular activities9 q0 e4 w; B, G# }. i
• get any grade less than an A
$ M( k+ r& D/ a/ Z3 B' K$ X$ Y• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
+ o8 R0 K0 o" e6 n( ]- h6 x* \ v* R• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
9 h9 v1 r3 Y6 R' l) O• not play the piano or violin.
9 ] a" B; J. y8 B) @; F看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。4 S, V( @1 V8 p4 K1 r7 F
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
- W; C/ ?, _. A) w' z5 V; {: C到底何为成功?
! R! U, G1 M, U. f" ^“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?* B3 ]! T. [, t, I( Z9 }1 H R
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?! k6 R L: f9 S& W: M0 ^7 H- F
做到这些又能怎样呢?
0 H6 H: n; p9 G/ B0 A9 ^我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。8 w# _% Z, w6 r) ?
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。! K) b2 R, O5 J$ W- q- o
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
2 c% ?* i T0 j/ F/ p% uNO WAY!
! R. q0 z4 O3 [ e" w; g- ^我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?' z; R' ^' q# f6 u7 M
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