TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:& o9 d- v) S- y, `1 V
• attend a sleepover
* {0 K3 y( i& y% ^7 S3 h• have a playdate
4 A2 R6 b, W0 m3 i% ^• be in a school play: A; x8 s2 z2 n4 `
• complain about not being in a school play- F5 M8 ?9 d* P( a" X
• watch TV or play computer games
7 x. r/ y/ |, B0 ]) u' n, h B8 B1 a( ^• choose their own extracurricular activities
Z9 o4 K8 |: C; l* ~% s6 K! U• get any grade less than an A* u4 c1 U% b9 I- \0 I2 V2 b7 Z6 Z
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama! M/ E" O9 e/ M8 ?2 f: B
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin Q' K5 E4 G2 A
• not play the piano or violin. & t; k" y p: k2 l' J. f+ Y( @$ E- X
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。% D: a- n! y+ m: W) B, b" }
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
6 ~: v( H* S! U. k2 j, _- Q& V到底何为成功?
) o( y& i6 F& l+ ?4 F9 N“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?% _+ ^. A; m& C6 X: {
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
) Q, W( }" v( J2 h& C. M做到这些又能怎样呢?3 V0 T" S! h6 y1 Q$ C3 I: i
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。& |" M& L: U6 q* q, Q4 D6 G" `3 J( w
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
3 ]9 ]+ j( T; l% i0 A/ Wnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? + P0 s# P! S$ u
NO WAY!# D$ B. ]) A N8 w4 d6 Q
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?5 S7 Q8 l: j0 D! V
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