TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:2 |" \( _2 y) C v8 N# V# c
• attend a sleepover
7 F5 s- i: r$ D0 h. D• have a playdate
$ c* n2 s) y% \7 J' b( H• be in a school play
5 }! n+ h; r! Z X v5 z; M$ l. E• complain about not being in a school play
+ u1 D( \9 h1 `+ O7 T/ }4 `/ u• watch TV or play computer games
! v. {$ j( r) H8 ?• choose their own extracurricular activities/ d6 T( ]9 P6 B$ a6 F/ g
• get any grade less than an A& s3 r9 D' _6 U
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama) f' c. U/ R9 n3 Z4 X0 g
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin$ J( @" }0 |2 x) O
• not play the piano or violin.
9 d- T3 r T: [8 K% T5 k看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
$ x9 ^3 X' V% k6 O; S( W! q8 R4 I* ?我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
+ @/ U4 x9 s6 ~$ e+ Q ~5 q到底何为成功?+ B" d- }# z: E; `1 {
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
+ U7 B; d5 s" m( _4 O3 W"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?8 y/ }' n4 U, V
做到这些又能怎样呢?: U( _' E) Q- B7 H6 w' i" J
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
: U( E& @4 B- Z" \在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
% M9 {3 z- i' E$ h, N1 U) B1 S/ Gnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? - ?/ R" J/ S% a6 G( W6 M! K
NO WAY!6 z% ?9 h% B+ N2 z3 S) w
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?7 _4 V- k, t& [6 E! Z1 h
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