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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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发表于 2011-1-26 09:04:47
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never allowed to do:* t6 @6 m' s- k
• attend a sleepover
1 P9 n* O( x4 t% b3 v9 N• have a playdate# D8 l% Z0 K6 Q, n2 a7 r0 s
• be in a school play B" d3 R& u' E1 [$ S
• complain about not being in a school play
3 O e# _' y% X; n• watch TV or play computer games
9 h7 a) I, g# w; B. ]. t, ` i• choose their own extracurricular activities( V7 D( S5 c0 J4 `/ h. g
• get any grade less than an A, p! V; q3 @1 W, ^
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama* Y$ k ~) F8 e* ]# Y `
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin$ D* l& A4 m5 F1 B/ C
• not play the piano or violin.
/ `, N! i8 g) r' a( j4 _6 x% I" H看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。7 O" r( f8 f; m+ W3 K2 j
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。1 v6 d3 k& V \$ `/ l
到底何为成功?3 ^ w4 Z5 v; X7 E# E+ D
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?1 t: }4 J& n' D1 J1 C6 Z
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?3 u$ k* o# K) }! b% I/ c3 z1 s# R$ O
做到这些又能怎样呢?
5 S& o* j# @6 C0 W我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。) w( l, U0 _+ l9 q( O* i: j9 W5 s
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
- O" b" v5 u0 Q1 H a1 o3 gnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? & N/ ~7 L \ t9 Q) }) h# T
NO WAY!
! E- f% \3 Q3 L2 r' d( M$ t我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?0 }) K+ F* q0 [) T2 h* W, d
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