TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
# O. z" ]6 [/ n3 ?: i• attend a sleepover# {7 u; r, }, b/ x5 N. W
• have a playdate1 v$ r. U: p1 n) D) f6 J
• be in a school play
4 F: W- [9 G4 Z9 [0 l$ D5 ?- U5 M5 p• complain about not being in a school play* r6 B- K4 R) `. b
• watch TV or play computer games+ R# u; E+ X i) J
• choose their own extracurricular activities; K' E2 i, r* j( m
• get any grade less than an A
7 M: U; D9 J* f$ e& S• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama: h7 G9 d( m) ^0 C. s L/ p; B
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin y; l* b4 J4 j# K
• not play the piano or violin.
; ]# G& p& I3 `) s+ e- B9 K, A看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
@; h. Z7 H6 g) z; D我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
4 d4 _1 ~2 j3 _% l到底何为成功?5 H) ^9 t* J3 S @0 V* \6 o9 E
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?9 e5 _6 O. m- c
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
\! ?* L4 b8 o2 F* C2 z& K做到这些又能怎样呢?
% \' Z9 }" f; @8 k3 ~$ T! D我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
. t4 X" {7 c8 M# U2 M4 h在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
6 G# g7 s7 n6 F/ xnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 0 s5 U! N5 w/ D( H- G# l
NO WAY!, P+ T! L8 O5 B: q6 `' [
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?5 d" k" g, f: E9 l) q: q$ h
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