TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:7 X% W; i$ }' ?; I
• attend a sleepover( n: c8 r* A9 {' R7 ?
• have a playdate
0 c+ x& l' l$ Z# T& F4 |) R• be in a school play1 c' v$ P1 H- w. S& T! h ]
• complain about not being in a school play
0 i& l* \ L2 `9 d% b3 ]* d, y• watch TV or play computer games5 u _8 r9 S; e2 b0 U3 P D2 w. V
• choose their own extracurricular activities f# @) k" B" i: c
• get any grade less than an A9 E' p7 J( s- J# J& ?
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
) Y+ x! H) s3 @! h- B• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
$ ~3 i( M$ o' E: _$ D6 g• not play the piano or violin.
" t' h9 O( Z# `" A看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
: h) \9 u/ w" u" h7 }5 z我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
0 W' r q x5 ^" m, l# V到底何为成功?
' @: I a4 f3 N1 F. q+ r“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
0 V9 l5 [2 a$ @- [7 {+ C"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?. y6 g# a7 ]7 M' d* W, x
做到这些又能怎样呢?
2 n7 S x: w* e$ L4 x/ Z) y我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
; q7 \2 F2 G0 c) g y在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
. X5 y3 x4 H: @0 r# b$ C% ~2 Gnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 4 `4 y; g d2 `7 g" r, {
NO WAY!+ T; a, @: W, u! E Q" H
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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