TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
" @ |1 ?; u+ ]) W! U1 ~& N5 g7 s• attend a sleepover+ M/ T8 H" {- C+ |, g6 `
• have a playdate7 d' z- R4 Q3 _$ G1 d# l: b
• be in a school play+ P( E" m; B8 m5 p2 s
• complain about not being in a school play+ x5 _$ ?8 d; A1 `0 n; r
• watch TV or play computer games
5 q/ t- g( r9 D6 W% f' {2 n* G c• choose their own extracurricular activities, @% y, f$ k: _+ C& T- ~" B% q
• get any grade less than an A1 z4 M2 W; W# i# f' f3 H
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
) ]5 D8 K6 N9 j9 y% ^3 n1 P; [• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
4 P, X8 T: `4 b9 N! _• not play the piano or violin. 2 z: S3 W+ b' t% Y: G' ?: |" k: b
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。: c: p. w0 B, f* q/ A- y
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
' b- |4 [& L" P$ |0 c8 @到底何为成功?
P: \3 z0 Q6 B2 ?( m9 R/ q8 S9 r( F“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
+ P W# {" s3 b- A/ x"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
' k- @6 y! h+ x- w做到这些又能怎样呢?
5 a$ k6 U% w: I, V7 ?$ M% p我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
8 p6 u# C. E1 b) v& u在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
7 p# n( F }: X0 Z" M3 hnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
; Z n6 u3 {% S# FNO WAY!& ^3 C3 z; }4 p2 t
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?& b. W- S/ H. m& z3 f
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