TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
/ @. @1 n0 z' r( u4 x4 K• attend a sleepover
: p, ^1 t, D/ w• have a playdate: i/ L: ?" U& N6 G/ }
• be in a school play# r7 t/ @/ i4 f4 {
• complain about not being in a school play; h- ^5 u$ g+ z* w. l/ @0 J* J" ~
• watch TV or play computer games
8 k" [- Z; X7 J2 P& d' c+ C• choose their own extracurricular activities
, S3 }( b; h6 h/ z$ t• get any grade less than an A
, `% R W% W, L( n• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama+ y5 C R/ S6 H
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin: t) c$ a) S7 p7 D& c
• not play the piano or violin.
* R: F4 {( w. c+ ], Q看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。6 ]5 e9 g) S0 L- \8 Y$ x7 b' V% m5 D
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
* L4 l6 \- }9 g t9 a到底何为成功?
8 S( q- ?% ]$ G( K) T4 e; q“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
6 N; I; E5 ]) Q* B"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
, [; t8 j! G1 f9 q7 ^: d做到这些又能怎样呢?
8 q v1 T8 S! A+ S- S我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。$ g+ f1 x; S6 [6 A3 x) h
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
% \/ i4 B3 N5 }5 L* }( lnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
# J9 ]( f1 a, o8 R" i: c8 ENO WAY!
1 ]7 ^ W1 T: T, ^/ C7 o; r我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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