TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:) Q! i! {* o% h: D0 _. _( R9 P) w
• attend a sleepover8 J- f2 U! J* M3 X
• have a playdate0 |- I& N% t4 a8 x9 O1 l/ b8 e
• be in a school play
2 [% C& \, y: N& n• complain about not being in a school play
# a/ ]$ A2 L/ ^% q• watch TV or play computer games! p6 Q- v k9 K
• choose their own extracurricular activities
1 O7 Y9 `0 b& p1 ?: h6 p0 ^" U6 Z• get any grade less than an A
, G+ F3 M& S6 _, c1 o% {% E1 @0 x• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama" r! _4 u9 Y- p
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin M a& {8 k+ Y, N, ?6 N6 s
• not play the piano or violin.
; c; z/ s! I) l0 N% p7 Y看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
9 K4 P3 w0 z D+ g; R2 }我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。6 e- F9 j: e. O2 P% c$ _
到底何为成功?
8 l, i$ c' L7 o# F6 Y' M; g“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
3 y# F9 W# _ w5 {) O"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?5 j- I. ~, S( r; K$ B a
做到这些又能怎样呢?
- k. t# b- a! s7 l `/ c& [我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
: o1 \! [4 B& ^0 p( o. m: U! f+ x' B) X在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。# j& ^1 f! n3 Z6 e7 B
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 5 I7 z5 x3 [( e% R$ h7 @3 i
NO WAY!
, R3 P8 x/ R' X# @% J2 g我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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