TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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never allowed to do:
. ^' p8 G) o2 v/ s+ }. l/ B* `- \• attend a sleepover
! f7 W5 v {, O9 C• have a playdate
# K( ]8 e: u9 T- v1 p% A$ i• be in a school play
# |. z. b" s A" [; N! W• complain about not being in a school play, _. H! I2 v: Z+ O: k! `7 z3 ?
• watch TV or play computer games, `, O% z0 E5 D* ]) w6 {
• choose their own extracurricular activities
; V9 | }( d+ @ Z, {0 M# K/ i• get any grade less than an A# m% b3 t3 F. j8 @7 D$ k5 m. t
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
" o' q9 ^/ x/ B: J6 b5 u0 Q8 `' v7 R• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
. P: Z+ p1 r& X, d$ m) [• not play the piano or violin.
% b3 s; ?7 B9 D3 p- I. \2 m1 p- s看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。2 [1 K0 L4 m: q
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
, H$ I$ e0 C: b( ^' O到底何为成功?
% }$ r7 P* f, y* R/ q“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
/ U L& x, x1 O"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
2 q- `! V2 a6 @2 r做到这些又能怎样呢?
8 R0 c* K0 \7 A" O) N我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
( h) o' }. ^, B% h e1 A8 A% d在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。' \4 N: Q# H- {( `0 a7 |3 r
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
1 B$ n1 _2 \9 }- g/ U/ k' CNO WAY!
& E, t& H+ Y. r5 i1 a' }我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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