TA的每日心情![](source/plugin/dsu_paulsign/img/emot/fd.gif) | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:: b0 y; U8 `; H, ^0 R
• attend a sleepover" ?2 {6 i6 P* r5 P
• have a playdate
& ]' a3 @; v8 X4 a& r8 W• be in a school play
$ X. l" I. |( e4 B3 C- ^+ U: A6 v• complain about not being in a school play) y# D0 m! E7 r) e% Y
• watch TV or play computer games
1 x8 O" `& l# }6 y+ W; N• choose their own extracurricular activities( B7 J& I$ a- ~+ f
• get any grade less than an A
+ j" ^" l1 T2 v- l9 Q) ?( |• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama q1 i1 _9 K; d/ m) z. v
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
5 m/ ?! E+ V O2 N• not play the piano or violin. ! i& E1 o" B4 d
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
, g+ d/ Q& S* T. D) p+ ]# L, J我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。6 ~" F$ r- S. ~! S6 i6 Y* [- T
到底何为成功?
/ i" o4 D* O6 l( Y“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
4 }! E: v9 |. Q3 _; h"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
7 t0 L) }4 }3 U' @做到这些又能怎样呢?
- d5 m5 Z+ M X我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。4 d( Q, @7 g( _& d6 `3 X0 c' U4 F
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
' b. d, d5 ] v- p0 `9 a3 a* K% Fnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
) b" `1 i* G% e" _' D8 g: P7 F1 FNO WAY!
* f1 U( b f0 ]8 M7 H" h我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?1 d4 t) |- u# A& W6 v s' k, l
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