TA的每日心情![](source/plugin/dsu_paulsign/img/emot/fd.gif) | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
% u9 x9 f& D- ~& U( w# j' J8 y6 |• attend a sleepover
7 [( M7 @ u6 q) T4 O• have a playdate
7 r: R1 z. e/ M- L7 V6 Q/ i, y9 ^• be in a school play# ^7 J: U$ [6 i' D$ f8 O
• complain about not being in a school play+ K5 J; Y; ?- Z$ p7 ^+ N: I
• watch TV or play computer games
, F+ ` V1 t: ?! f- g• choose their own extracurricular activities2 t9 Z; N0 z) }3 \& p- ?, K1 p3 E
• get any grade less than an A: O1 h% z( }- h4 W& _
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama0 o! O, n6 B1 }% \1 p- u* I/ u
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin3 x0 F' b, c( E5 q2 p8 e$ g
• not play the piano or violin.
5 s+ A+ X0 U( h/ k看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
* M# V8 R3 o* }" P5 b0 v我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。 T. f1 {; n$ D/ z1 ^
到底何为成功?/ {: v& T* Y2 ^ O% f V7 k
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
8 k( ^& [- N) a; q) r* e! Z+ q"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?- W/ H# D% `8 Q) p6 I9 B2 ~7 N
做到这些又能怎样呢?4 M/ y, v+ p2 J( Q: T0 A7 @- p
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
* S* z8 ?) @4 |$ |3 g在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。; }9 o b9 V2 a) }# S8 w' V
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
9 e9 e3 x& s" n7 o) L# C3 q' K3 GNO WAY!
" H1 {5 G9 l! Z& a/ G1 T! D我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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