TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
! C- `0 k+ E; A& t- c' s• attend a sleepover0 k& d* l% z0 w) E3 R: ~
• have a playdate4 d$ G1 Y2 x6 ~$ t8 w3 J: g0 t; a
• be in a school play, z4 h& L3 w+ K$ D0 L
• complain about not being in a school play
# }3 U U6 W; H* \( n* H+ W7 g3 @• watch TV or play computer games
J% U; }, Q9 x. Y/ F( N+ e. r• choose their own extracurricular activities
5 k. S( N$ P- |" R7 j O• get any grade less than an A
: d5 }& U, N3 j- }- {% r. T& y3 G. H• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
1 Q$ c# t2 K9 Q7 {• play any instrument other than the piano or violin7 Z- l7 W+ P, }7 i }/ U
• not play the piano or violin. v9 V% d& t! u
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
# R+ |! A9 \' w* a& Y我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。/ H/ u4 U+ f+ ?; S7 c; X
到底何为成功?, t f! X, ? _8 u
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
' r+ W; ^& Y3 ?& O T* O F"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?- l- `) Q7 p, I( m& {6 e2 B/ U
做到这些又能怎样呢?/ I% q7 x; n9 |# n$ J i
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
' y" V2 u, v+ b在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
' V; V0 m! @. E' x* v- _! znever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 8 `: E% \ Q0 z3 m N9 ]
NO WAY! ^! i* |. z( M" {+ C
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?& q7 f" t5 x! q
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