TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:; [: K# T. C$ O
• attend a sleepover/ d( F3 K! Y3 r5 |, T/ t
• have a playdate
+ K& t6 M/ ?2 b8 c# k• be in a school play; w* W Q+ {( _! m8 s9 u3 `, _
• complain about not being in a school play
8 r, _4 N$ N2 s5 L: L. N• watch TV or play computer games
8 N' K* `) D" A2 ~8 h0 X, w( }• choose their own extracurricular activities
/ b5 j. q9 I, T6 s5 p: |% I• get any grade less than an A
1 v# u& @0 K x x9 ]) q# d' Z2 D• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
4 v" u# i8 _+ q6 t, S• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
: ]* `' h" @" A• not play the piano or violin.
5 ]0 F: f/ i% [) n5 Z看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
( ], ], |; ^0 }. }0 H我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。" C! u. }$ F4 ?5 p' p, e; ?) A& R
到底何为成功?7 T% ^; G6 f, |( {) M$ A# T& w' h
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
. H+ h4 g: T* W( b2 b& u"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?9 d! H8 ?# ~9 z
做到这些又能怎样呢?4 j/ u: I, k4 h/ c
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
+ o1 [0 x1 _5 H6 q- i在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
* `5 n. t9 j3 R4 Y: b3 ?never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
+ n5 l4 L. x- R( o1 m; mNO WAY!
% H3 |& @0 P5 U4 n, v我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?, C. a" @5 O: w; U5 O8 t! [6 _
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