华裔虎妈和国际中学生教育排名

不爱吱声

never allowed to do:
• attend a sleepover
• have a playdate
• be in a school play
& Q. ~9 E$ k0 t) r* E• complain about not being in a school play
• watch TV or play computer games
( n& J6 E% r( C$ Q1 x0 T3 ~7 t7 X• choose their own extracurricular activities
• get any grade less than an A
5 o+ X+ a! u! S# u" x( c; f# S• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
3 J  P3 {5 c7 n8 C' Z  C• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
• not play the piano or violin.

看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语，绝对无法苟同。
我是无论如何也做不到，也不想做到。
到底何为成功？
6 k) A. a8 |& @: I0 w+ l" A2 l  |+ k“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么？
& I# ~0 A, N* t' f' E, |"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么？
4 @6 k+ K1 E+ y& p. M做到这些又能怎样呢？
2 r, m9 p5 Q: G- a! E5 R我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条，永不停歇。
; O5 T8 R3 u. T' }8 @1 V5 h; m在我看来，作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境，能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没，能够帮助孩子设定目标，指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
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never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?

, d: s' N( ?0 dNO WAY!
8 p+ O6 K4 _* ]  z9 R我实在想不出，这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道？
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