TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:. d, n( D6 L {" K6 D
• attend a sleepover
6 u$ P7 W. t5 [( x& p) m+ R4 o• have a playdate
! Q$ _ P2 `, @& I2 b0 g• be in a school play# y |2 q" O% D) l
• complain about not being in a school play3 M1 L" m7 f# p% | c' O, P/ ^6 n; V
• watch TV or play computer games$ L# J& z. s0 E( A7 I+ R
• choose their own extracurricular activities
7 X, B8 a* l7 F0 g8 V# j• get any grade less than an A" {8 W: B% R$ ^+ \- u5 B
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
" _+ i2 |2 T6 [2 }• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
' L1 T8 C# l1 g1 q: p! C• not play the piano or violin.
; Y8 e# T! L2 ~# q: K$ ?看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
! M! @& |; R& \# }; C" U$ I我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。( ~ y6 o" T; B" x( B
到底何为成功?1 R, Z, I$ H D) C
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?7 Y& h! x1 G7 C6 O% J
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
* c2 C) Q c$ a# q0 t做到这些又能怎样呢?
* F2 L2 a& d. T! p我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
) w) ?( U6 h% W& s; N9 z: g: o在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
. U' v: V' w2 I* J: E' qnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? x- S) i; \# t1 b( c- d0 @; V4 F
NO WAY!" L% @7 h$ w' D- X7 k# ]" @
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?1 z F1 ?( m, W- h' }) l
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